Life Matters TherapyPsychotherapy Counselling in Manchester & Online

Therapy for burnout, anxiety, people-pleasing and loss of meaning. A human, compassionate approach to understanding yourself and creating change - Central Manchester & Online

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Therapy for when something needs to change

A warm welcome, I’m glad you’re here. Reaching this point often means you’re noticing that something in your life no longer feels quite right, and you’re open to understanding that more deeply. You might be wondering whether therapy is right for you, or why you’re feeling this way when, on the surface, everything looks fine.

Life can feel demanding, fast-paced, and full of expectations. Many people find themselves managing responsibilities, meeting others’ needs, and ticking boxes - at work, in relationships, and in life generally - while quietly feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or out of step with themselves. There may come a point where the old ways of coping no longer feel sustainable, where something feels off, but it’s hard to put into words.

People often come to therapy searching for help with anxiety, low mood, burnout, or stress. Beneath this, there is often a deeper sense of disconnection - from themselves, their needs, or the life they’re living.

You may appear to be coping on the outside, yet internally feel unhappy, burnt out, anxious, self-critical, uncertain, or exhausted by the effort of being who you think you should be. These experiences are not personal failings, but understandable human responses to long-term pressure, relationships, and the demands of modern life.

Many people find their way here asking themselves, “Why do I feel like this when everything looks fine?”

Therapy offers a space to slow down and make sense of what’s happening, supporting you to understand your experience, reconnect with who you are, and move forward in a way that feels more aligned, sustainable, and true to yourself.

You might recognise yourself in patterns such as:

  • Burnout, exhaustion, or a sense of running on empty - often linked to over-responsibility, high expectations, or long periods of pushing yourself
  • People-pleasing or over-responsibility for others’ feelings, often at the expense of your own
  • Perfectionism and self-criticism, driven by high or harsh inner standards
  • Difficulty setting boundaries, leading to imbalance or resentment in relationships
  • Masking or hiding parts of yourself to feel accepted or avoid conflict
  • Living according to external expectations, comparison, or a sense of needing to keep up
  • Living on autopilot, guided by fear or obligation rather than what you truly value or want

Over time, these ways of coping can leave people feeling disconnected from themselves, unsure of their direction, or lacking confidence - even when life appears 'fine' from the outside.

If this feels familiar, you’re welcome to get in touch to explore working together. Karen.

I provide a confidential, compassionate therapeutic space from my private practice in Central Manchester location as well as offering online therapy.

''Am I living in a way which is deeply satisfying to me and which truly expresses me''? Carl R Rogers

How I work

I take an understanding-led approach, seeing many struggles - including anxiety, low mood, burnout and loss of confidence, as human responses to life’s experiences and pressures rather than personal shortcomings. Through reflection, theory, and psychoeducation, I support you to make sense of what’s happening for you - how certain patterns may have developed, why they persist, and how they might be changed. 

This understanding often reduces self-blame and creates a greater sense of choice, agency, and control. Change is approached with care and at your own pace, supporting you to reconnect with who you are and move towards living in a way that feels more authentic, grounded, and sustainable.
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I am an experienced practitioner, having worked over a decade with a wide range of adult clients with an extensive range of presenting issues, however the below issues are those I deal with the most:

  • anxiety, worry, and fearful thinking
  • low mood and depression

  • stress and burnout, including work-related stress

  • confidence, self-esteem, and feelings of inadequacy

  • self-criticism, shame, and harsh inner standards

  • people-pleasing and difficulty prioritising yourself

  • feeling lost, disconnected, or uncertain about life direction

  • loss and bereavement

…or perhaps you simply don’t feel like yourself anymore.

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Memberships:

* BACP (Accredited)
* GHR Registered (Accredited)
* Anxiety UK Approved Therapist

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



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